Despite the societal stigma, Linglong rejected the notion that her single status defined her value. I don t see myself that way, she said
Despite the societal stigma, Linglong rejected the notion that her single status defined her value. “I don’t see myself that way,” she said. “I think I’m smart, independent. I work really hard. I have my own career and a life that I built and enjoy. I know I’m not 25 anymore, but I try really hard not to let anxiety or society’s clock tell me that I’m running out of time," she added.
Her reflection highlighted a layer of modern romance: the wisdom gained through self-discovery: “I’ve also learned from past relationships that being with the wrong person can make you much more unhappy than being alone. I’m still open to love, but I just don’t want to choose someone because I’m scared of being alone.”
The core of her ‘disappointment’, however, stems from familial expectations. “I don’t really care if people think I’m too old, but I want my own parents to be by my side,” Linglong admitted. She added, “I want them to look at me and still think, ‘This is my daughter, she has value, she deserves someone who’s actually right for her.’ I think the world already gives women enough reasons to be anxious about getting older. I’m just a little disappointed my parents are part of it too.”
Another shared her own choice for independence: “I was supposed to get married to the man I love some months ago, he told me I would have to quit my job after the wedding, I cancelled the wedding.” A 49-year-old woman from India reinforced Linglong' stance: “Being alone is not scary. I don’t know why people instill this fear. You do you, boo.”
Linglong’s story highlights a broader movement of women redefining independence, standing firm in their worth, and refusing to settle for anything less than genuine respect.
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